Thursday, January 12, 2012

how you get tired after you've been crying.

it's like your body telling you, "you've suffered enough. now it's time to shut down for a little bit." i honestly do not think crying makes you weak. i think crying is perfectly normal, and HEALTHY. anyone who thinks otherwise is an idiot. there is a time when it's not healthy, yes. but when you're feeling broken into a million pieces, it's normal to cry. when your grandma died, crying is normal. dog died, normal. sad news, normal. when you cry about EVERYTHING, not normal. but when you don't cry at all, that's disconcerting too. but crying is your way of saying, "you know what? this is a hard thing. and i have negative emotions i need to get out." and so you cry. it doesn't mean you're a baby, or you can't handle your life. it means you are dealing with it positively. sometimes, it's either cry, or kill someone. crying is a normal, human response to sadness, and i think our society makes it out to be this horrible disease. it's not. it's a good way for your body to deal with sadness. 
so CRY. it's normal. it's natural. it's perfectly fine.
and you will feel better. you'll smile and not worry about life anymore. it'll be good, promise. 
head up little one. better days are sure to come(:

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